And I've added a couple of my own tips for good measure, since I am the younger woman and all. And I've added a couple of my own tips for good measure, since I am the younger woman and all. DON' T point out how "cute" his first grey chest hair is (OOPS). But I've been watching New Girl and compiled a list of DOs and DON' Ts from Jess's experience dating the sophisticated Dermot Mulroney as Fancypants, who's a whopping twelve years older. But I've been watching and compiled a list of DOs and DON' Ts from Jess's experience dating the sophisticated Dermot Mulroney as Fancypants, who's a whopping twelve years older.If you expect love to come in words…you could be waiting a very long time. Let them open the door for you or change that light bulb you can’t reach. All they want in return is to be appreciated and thanked.

Are you dating an older fellow or thinking about dipping your toes into that more mature water? Are you dating an older fellow or thinking about dipping your toes into that more mature water? Or, in Jess's (Zooey Deschanel's character, for those of you who aren't fans yet) case, don't ask about his health: "How's your prostate? Our bodies are decaying."DO relish in the fact that guys get better looking with age, but you'll always be the hot, younger girlfriend.

Well, my dears, you've come to the right place. Well, my dears, you've come to the right place. DON' T complain about turning "halfway to 50" when he's "one year til 30".

Tip #5 – Don’t criticize the job a man is doing for you.

He’s doing his best and yes, you may be able to do it better or faster than he can but don’t… If he’s offered to do something for you, allow him to do it his way.

It’s what led me to helping women really understand who men are…especially over 50’s men.

That’s why I wrote these 8 tips about men you can use right away in your own dating life. They don’t think like women nor do they communicate like women.

Or a 24-year-old girl from New Jersey who happens to blog about her relationship. DON' T use childhood/pop culture references that he will never get.

During one scene, Nick (who else has a major crush on him??

) starts talking to a girl in college who, he realizes, "doesn't know what is." For your date with an older gent: as cool as it is, not everyone needs to know that you were part of an NSYNC fan club (cough cough).