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But they are dull, and boring and they just don’t represent the single over 50s we know.

I feel so embarrassed asking these questions, but I don't know who else to ask.. I've already come to the conclusion that the only possibly of becoming intimate with a lady is to make sure she has some sort of an ostomy herself.

That's fine and understandable though I wish the door wasn't halfway closed knowing I will never be accepted by someone without one.

Yea I know, there are alot of wonderful, sweet women out there who will understand. Theres not been any dating adds so i though id be brave and be the 1st to put one on. well i suppose I'm like a prince charming that is seeking his beautiful princess.

If you believe that you've watched and read too many love stories. How can you have sex with the thought there could be the slightest chance of an a... Well hello i was wondering what to write as a punchline 1st so it was either romeo seeks his Juliette or prince charming seeks his princess they both sound like me so any way lol. i will treat you like a princess show you lots of love and affection give you lots of cuddles and kisses show you that your wanted and f...

I was wondering has anyone found a way of keeping that darn bag out of the way when they are having on of thier most intimate moments? From things I have read on this site the answer is no. The belt, additionally, holds the bag against the body and reduces the possibility of detachment.

I've used techniques such as holding it under a t-shirt ect... People say its either to hard to tell people about the bag or they run for the hills once they find out. In the case of bag detachment, it stays in its place, as the pocket prevents it from slipping along the body and dropping out of clothing to the ground.

I thought that this was probably the right time to reveal the truth about my cancer and ileostomy. Are there any other gay men on here who would like to talk?