Used by millions of people around the world, Ok Cupid has proven themselves to be one of the most effective ways to actually find matches that last.While Ok Cupid is completely free to use—including unlimited messages and matches—you’re more likely to find success if you have a paid account for /mo.

There is a stereotype that most guys are only attracted to young girls, while men who like older women are nearly impossible to find.

In reality, there are much more men dating older women than you can imagine.

As a free user, you get a few potential matches per day and can only send pre-written “Quick Questions” when communicating with matches.

The main “problem” with e Harmony is that it has the most expensive paid plan at $60/mo.

As a paying user for $24/mo, your profile will be highlighted in search results, you’ll get access to even deeper matching algorithms, and the ability to see when messages are read or deleted.

Our Time is an adult dating site that caters to 50-year-olds-and-above who want to find either casual or deep relationships.

You can view your matches and send messages, including audio messages and video messages.

Senior People Meet is completely free to use, but you get more features with the /mo paid plan.

These couples can be everywhere around you, but they are not easy to spot, because older women are remarkably good at looking fabulous.