Question from the dating game
this can tell you what kind of weather and weather related activities they like. This will give you an insight into their sense of humor. Maybe it’s Halloween, Thanksgiving or Christmas, be sure to ask why. Will just being there help or will you need something more. A glimpse at what they really think is important when it comes to luxuries or material items. What is the wackiest gift you have ever received or given someone? The willingness of an answer on this shows you they have some amount of trust in you.
This will give you an idea of what kind of relationship they have with siblings if they have any. At that point, you might want to ask why, as they may not see the way others do. If you don’t want to have drama in your life or relationship then you need to discuss ways to avoid it and not create it if it is a factor. Are you a priority or is it their job first, their friends, fun, and then you. This will be insightful, do they see beauty as an outward or inward beauty or a combination of both and in which way. How would you handle one or the other of us being offered a dream job but having to move in order to take it?
This is going to let you in on what they dislike about themselves. This also allows you to know how serious the other is about their faith. Do you have a lot of drama or negativity in your life? This may seem like we have already covered it and in a roundabout way maybe we have, but this point blank sets the stages to see just where their priorities lay and this is important.
Whether you’re making conversation at dinner or killing time on a road trip, these questions to ask spark conversations and form connections.
Another reason why the 21 questions game is so great is that it gives you a way to ask questions that are…well…awkward to ask directly.
Have your ever driven drunk or even slightly buzzed?
This can tell you how they really wish to live a life full of honesty and good or do wish to achieve a fortune or fame at any cost. A good way to find out if they believe in only what they can confirm with their senses (touch, vision, hear, taste, and smell). This may give you a sense of things they like to do, hiking, historical tours, beaches, fishing, scuba diving etc. What’s something everyone else loves that you secretly find overrated? Just as an example, cheeseburgers because they are vegan or social media because it’s a waste of time. Would you be willing to go in for testing again before we get more involved? You will get an idea of if they are religious or not. If they say that ask for the happiest moment of life before that. Don’t let them get away with just saying meeting you. This will let you see if they have been dating for a long period of time and if they have really decided on what they want out of a relationship or not. This could be slightly revealing, do they want you all to themselves in a possessive way or would they be happy sharing you with family and friends. This allows you to glimpse into their personal preferences, there is no right or wrong answer here unless you have tattoos or body piercings that they cannot accept about you. This one can tell you a couple of things, first do they fall in and out of love easily and second are they afraid of commitment. This will tell you how they handle anger, stress, and what they use as a way to resolve it.